Listen, and communicate back.

Are respectful. Not just of her, but of others.

Open doors whether it is car door or door to a building.

Are honest, no one wants to be lied to, don’t be so afraid to hurt her feelings that you lie. That is never the right way to go.
On a side note: If you are going to break up with a girl, don't put her through misery first by being mean, attempting to make her break up with you. Stop being a pansy, tell her how you feel. Breaking up is as much a part of dating as getting together. Express your feelings, and ya of course she'll be mad, no one likes to be dumped. But be kind and considerate of the situation.

Give Flowers! Find out her favorite flower. You don’t need a reason to give her flowers, sometimes it means even more when there is no reason.

Pay. Much is seen in a guy that pays.
Another side note: Guys ever wonder why girls don't like to pick where to eat... well maybe it is because you are the one paying. As girls we do not know where you feel comfortable eating. We do not know your financial situation. Options are always a good way to go. But don't try to escape responsibility by throwing it at us.

Kisses on the forehead are amazing. Way incredible amazing. At least my heart flutters.

Tell her she’s beautiful. Whether it's your wife, your sister, your mother, or your grandmother. Some days we just don't feel like we are beautiful, and hearing it on those days makes all the difference. But especially tell your wife/fiancee/girlfriend, we need to know that you think we are beautiful.
Side note:(Tell her she looks cute when she’s mad)

Do little things just because. Send a note because you were thinking of her. Pay attention notice things that she likes and surprise her with them. Take the initiative
and be creative. This is the basic formula for being romantic.

Take time figure out what’s wrong don’t just walk away. A girl wants to know if you are a guy that is going to stick around through the good and bad. She is going to watch how you react.

Talk! Add to the conversation, girls love to talk, but they also like to listen. Show them you can carry an intelligent conversation.

Take the initiative, don’t always wait for her.

Dance with her, whether at a dance, a wedding, or in the middle of a street.

Tease, flirt with her, be playful. There is something about being playful and flirty.
(throw her in the water or pretend to throw her in.)

Take care of her. Give her your jacket when she’s cold. Give her soup when she is sick. Give her support when she is scared and sad.

Touch her arms softly, run you fingers through her hair.

Tell her how you feel. Whether it is a simple, “I enjoy spending time with you” to “I miss you” to “I love you”

Treats as an equal, girls are not dishwashers, instead help or do them for her without her asking.
Side note: Men and women are not the same, but should be equal in a relationship. Equal in the sense of one person does not control the relationship. But two people communicating and deciding together how to handle situations. Men and women are made for different purposes, one is not better than the other. Just different. It just makes sense for a man and women to be together, opposites compliment each other, and the missing pieces are filled in.

Girls spend time getting all dolled up for you, don’t make her feel all awkward when you show up in so old t-shirt and your favorite pair of beat up shoes.

You are a reflection of her taste and judgment. Be someone that they want to introduce to their friends and family. She does not want to worry about whether or not you will say or do something inappropriate or rude.

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